Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of James Isted with the following comment:
I'm helping my mother compile our family tree - James and Bett Isted are my great, great, great grandparents (I think I have the right number of greats in there!). What a super resource you are providing, we live in the far north of scotland so visits to find the graves are not possible. Thank you so much.